After having a pow wow with a few comrades of both sexes, we got on the subject of oral sex. It is always interesting hearing people talk about how they feel about giving and receiving it. I actually know a few people who love giving oral, but cringe at the thought of receiving it. But I also know a few who hate giving it and love receiving it.
I have decided that today's blog should focus on what to do in order to assure you get it and give it correctly. Many guys do not know this but some women cannot get off from sex, thus why we depend on oral sex to get us there and if you aren't delivering, you will not be keeping your partner satisfied, in fact, you will be seen as a selfish lover and no one wants to be with that.
Oral sex is the most effective way to get women to reach orgasm because it is direct stimulation of the clitoris. Thus why it is called the "pleasure button." Guys think of it this way, you want to receive it, then give a little love too. Gents, like your mother taught you: "Ladies first." If you go giving a girl oral sex after you have already been satisfied, you are not as amped up sexually and therefore will not deliver the best performance that you would otherwise give her. Girls have an easier time giving oral after an orgasm because we can have multiple ones.
Some common issues with oral sex: The smell or the taste. As crazy as this may sound, it is very important ladies and gents to keep yourself well groomed and clean. Showering daily is essential. You can even help the scent of you by what you eat. Stay away from vinegars and instead eat more fruits like pineapple and peaches. These sugary fruits actually cleanse the body in more ways than one. This is the best way to avoid having "funky spunk" and avoid receiving a look like the one below.
I found an article for men to give them a few pointers to be great at oral sex. Guys, click here to know how to please your lady. For my lovely ladies, it is important for you to give great oral in order to better discover what your partner likes/dislikes. Keep reading your Cosmo! Guys love a woman who knows just how to please them.
"the sense of power is such a turn-on, maybe you're on your knees, but you got him by the balls."
-Samantha Jones, Sex and the City
Like I said before, sex is all about pleasure and discovery. So hop to it and get to discovering the uncharted lands!
-JD over and out.
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