21st Century Relationships.

As I have told you all before men do a fine job of scaring themselves in situations when it comes to relationships. More often than not, they will want the selfishness of keeping you to themselves (How dare that other guy want to take you out!) While at the same time keeping their own freedom by not claiming the two of you in an actual relationship.

While they have their own inner monologue on what they want, it is important not to sit on the fence next to them waiting. After all, you have your own life to live and women have more power in relationships now than ever before! Because of this, it is important to let the man finally come up with his own conclusions about what he wants without you pulling the relationship card. By not pushing the issue it gives the guy a chance to figure things out for himself. This doesn't mean you hold your breath, in fact, you should still go out and socialize and meet people.

Until he says he wants to be with you and
only you, he has no real claim on you.

This lets him see he is not your whole world and honestly, who wants to date someone who doesn't have a life of their own? NO ONE. Lay back and cruise. By letting the guy bring up the relationship it shows you are not being "needy" and that there is no real "pressure" or "rush" to make him feel like he needs to run like you just set him on fire.

If the pressure is off, fun can be had and honestly, what can be better than some fun with the ridiculously busy schedules we all seem to possess in this day and age. As always, be true to yourself. Know what you want and go for it and don't waste your time on someone who isn't willing to give up their time for you.

Jane Doe over and out.